Don't know where to get started? Here are some of my favourite posts.

Just so's you're prepared, I blog a lot about my mom, who died in 2004 after more than 20 years of living with cancer.

• Four same-sex, half Jewish weddings and a funeral (This essay was originally published in Lilith magazine, and then reprinted in the anthology Here Come the Brides: Reflections on Lesbian Love and Marriage and in Ms. magazine.)
• Just when I thought I had nothing to say
• The egg: A cautionary tale
• Unravelling
• It's always something (this post was chosen for By 2012 BlogHer Voices of the Year community keynote)
• Blankety blank blank blank
• To Chris at the car dealership, who thought I was racist
• What I needed this morning (a 2011 BlogHer Voices of the Year pick)
• Heart, break
• Her number (VOTY 2014)
• Take the toddler's bowling, take them bowling
• A note on the text